but too young fo you bro.. lol :]

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ima cheerleader bitch. :)
&& i love pic comments. btw, new pics. :]]

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ON
1) Bi-sexual - Most of them are, and I don't mind if the next one is as well. At least I won't have any arguments if she chooses a third person in a group activity to be a woman or not, if that time comes.
2) Maturity - I don't mind if a girl can act immature a lot of the time, but somewhere along the lines arguments are going to start happening, and I need someone that is prepared to stop and listen to me and understand. I will return the favour. This is pretty critical.
3) Tall - Doesn't have to be all that tall, I might even dislike it if she was taller than I am, because I am tall enough as it is. I just need a girl that I won't have any massive trouble trying to get down to her level, without her having to wear high heals on a step to reach my lips.
4) A bit of a open mind - I can't stand a girl that isn't ready to understand a couple of important things, like potentially an open relationship, or even one that involves something beyond vanilla sex. If I say anal sex and you are judging me for it (I'm not even that into it), or block the idea out of your head, then you have too much of a closed mind to me, and lack curiosity. There is a lot to this that makes things more... and more of a turn on.
5) Intelligent - I don't mind a friend being as stupid as they want to be, but if I say a lot of sophisticated words and you can't even begin to understand one of them, it will get frustrating fast.
6) Background - There is a lot of things I am willing to accept that you have gone through, and I should be willing to support you through it, but I am not going to commit to a woman who enjoys the use of drugs and drinks a little too often. I am not going to start anything with drugs, and while I might start drinking in my own time, I am not fine helping out a woman who is stumbling all the time. I wouldn't mind a woman who needs some support, emotional support.
7) Honesty - I actually kinda wish I was legally allowed to shoot anyone that creates a web of lies. Maybe you can lie about some things, but there is a lot of mistakes that you can make that I might be able to forgive if you are just honest to me about it. Mistakes happen, and we aren't perfect, so just be up front about the things you did. I couldn't ask for more.
8) Girl - Oh yeah... you have to be a girl. Connecting on an emotional and love level with a guy just isn't possible for me, and I don't want to test it out.

OFF
1) Gold digger - I appreciate a girl who can not thank me enough for what I gave them as a gift. Sometimes I might give you a very thoughtful and useful gift, and spend a little too much on it. But if I haven't spent a cent on you in a month and you think you should have sort of weekly allowance, then I wish you goodbye. I would rather know what you need money for and pay for it, if I really had to.
2) Massive drama games - I have and probably will continue to create some level of drama in a relationship, but if I have a couple of numbers txting my phone telling me how much of a jerk I am, you are blowing this completely out of proportion and you won't be hearing from me again.
3) Hair maintenance - Woman are meant to be elegant, and have some sort of hair free feature about them. Maybe I can understand how annoying it can be to get well shaved legs all the time, but if you have lost hopes on those legs then I will need to see ID and hope you are not a man. And the down south area, I can understand personal preference, but give trimming a chance at least.
4) Saving yourself - Sorry, but I just don't want the added complication that sex is out of the question. If you are a virgin it is alright if you wait so I can prove myself that I will not be a mistake for you. However sex needs to exist at some capacity.
5) Attitudes - If I keep thinking I will die the next time I die as a passenger, or you will die as a driver in a car, then you have serious reality issues. Cars can go fast if you want, but please don't put my life in danger unnecessarily, or make me cry if you lose yours. No drugs either, and drinking like stated above.
6) Age - Until I get older, any girls younger than 3-4 years of me will have a noticeable different level of maturity and are in that stage of their life. You still live with your parents, and will continue to do so for a while to come. I will get careful once you reveal an age too young for me. On the older side, I suppose I don't mind so much as long as I can pass you off as a teenager... just maybe.
7) Shy - You can get time to know me, but if you can't trust me with how you feel about something and keep clammed up all the time, then I don't know how I am going to establish a real emotional relationship with you. I am going to ask you what is wrong sometimes, and I really think you should open up.

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I find this post too closely related to me and everything that has happened between us in the past.

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Sexy is an overstatement

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Quote: from Jay JWLH at 12:56 am on July 2, 2008

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ON  
 1) Bi-sexual - Most of them are, and I don't mind if the next one is as well. At least I won't have any arguments if she chooses a third person in a group activity to be a woman or not, if that time comes.  
 2) Maturity - I don't mind if a girl can act immature a lot of the time, but somewhere along the lines arguments are going to start happening, and I need someone that is prepared to stop and listen to me and understand. I will return the favour. This is pretty critical.  
 3) Tall - Doesn't have to be all that tall, I might even dislike it if she was taller than I am, because I am tall enough as it is. I just need a girl that I won't have any massive trouble trying to get down to her level, without her having to wear high heals on a step to reach my lips.  
 4) A bit of a open mind - I can't stand a girl that isn't ready to understand a couple of important things, like potentially an open relationship, or even one that involves something beyond vanilla sex. If I say anal sex and you are judging me for it (I'm not even that into it), or block the idea out of your head, then you have too much of a closed mind to me, and lack curiosity. There is a lot to this that makes things more... and more of a turn on.  
 5) Intelligent - I don't mind a friend being as stupid as they want to be, but if I say a lot of sophisticated words and you can't even begin to understand one of them, it will get frustrating fast.  
 6) Background - There is a lot of things I am willing to accept that you have gone through, and I should be willing to support you through it, but I am not going to commit to a woman who enjoys the use of drugs and drinks a little too often. I am not going to start anything with drugs, and while I might start drinking in my own time, I am not fine helping out a woman who is stumbling all the time. I wouldn't mind a woman who needs some support, emotional support.  
 7) Honesty - I actually kinda wish I was legally allowed to shoot anyone that creates a web of lies. Maybe you can lie about some things, but there is a lot of mistakes that you can make that I might be able to forgive if you are just honest to me about it. Mistakes happen, and we aren't perfect, so just be up front about the things you did. I couldn't ask for more.  
 8) Girl - Oh yeah... you have to be a girl. Connecting on an emotional and love level with a guy just isn't possible for me, and I don't want to test it out.  

 OFF  
 1) Gold digger - I appreciate a girl who can not thank me enough for what I gave them as a gift. Sometimes I might give you a very thoughtful and useful gift, and spend a little too much on it. But if I haven't spent a cent on you in a month and you think you should have sort of weekly allowance, then I wish you goodbye. I would rather know what you need money  for and pay for it, if I really had to.  
 2) Massive drama games - I have and probably will continue to create some level of drama in a relationship, but if I have a couple of numbers txting my phone telling me how much of a jerk I am, you are blowing this completely out of proportion and you won't be hearing from me again.  
 3) Hair maintenance - Woman are meant to be elegant, and have some sort of hair free feature about them. Maybe I can understand how annoying it can be to get well shaved legs all the time, but if you have lost hopes on those legs then I will need to see ID and hope you are not a man. And the down south area, I can understand personal preference, but give trimming a chance at least.  
 4) Saving yourself - Sorry, but I just don't want the added complication that sex is out of the question. If you are a virgin it is alright if you wait so I can prove myself that I will not be a mistake for you. However sex needs to exist at some capacity.  
 5) Attitudes - If I keep thinking I will die the next time I die as a passenger, or you will die as a driver in a car, then you have serious reality issues. Cars can go fast if you want, but please don't put my life in danger unnecessarily, or make me cry if you lose yours. No drugs either, and drinking like stated above.  
 6) Age - Until I get older, any girls younger than 3-4 years of me will have a noticeable different level of maturity and are in that stage of their life. You still live with your parents, and will continue to do so for a while to come. I will get careful once you reveal an age too young for me. On the older side, I suppose I don't mind so much as long as I can pass you off as a teenager... just maybe.  
 7) Shy - You can get time to know me, but if you can't trust me with how you feel about something and keep clammed up all the time, then I don't know how I am going to establish a real emotional relationship with you. I am going to ask you what is wrong sometimes, and I really think you should open up.

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I find this post too closely related to me and everything that has happened between us in the past.

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Turn-offs:
1. Arrogant
2. Selfish
3. Speaking negatively/critizising people behind their backs
4. Caring too much about their appearance
5. Trying to be someone they're not
6. Having a completely different humour than I
7. Being sad all the time
8. Not caring about their health at all
9. Boys without sympathy and solidarity
10. Boys who doesn't like to have fun (but is there anyone who doesn't like to have fun?)

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The future is renewable

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Quote: from sarah is hot at 11:16 am on July 22, 2008

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Quote: from Jay JWLH at 12:56 am on July 2, 2008

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ON
  1) Bi-sexual - Most of them are, and I don't mind if the next one is as well. At least I won't have any arguments if she chooses a third person in a group activity to be a woman or not, if that time comes.
  2) Maturity - I don't mind if a girl can act immature a lot of the time, but somewhere along the lines arguments are going to start happening, and I need someone that is prepared to stop and listen to me and understand. I will return the favour. This is pretty critical.
  3) Tall - Doesn't have to be all that tall, I might even dislike it if she was taller than I am, because I am tall enough as it is. I just need a girl that I won't have any massive trouble trying to get down to her level, without her having to wear high heals on a step to reach my lips.
  4) A bit of a open mind - I can't stand a girl that isn't ready to understand a couple of important things, like potentially an open relationship, or even one that involves something beyond vanilla sex. If I say anal sex and you are judging me for it (I'm not even that into it), or block the idea out of your head, then you have too much of a closed mind to me, and lack curiosity. There is a lot to this that makes things more... and more of a turn on.
  5) Intelligent - I don't mind a friend being as stupid as they want to be, but if I say a lot of sophisticated words and you can't even begin to understand one of them, it will get frustrating fast.
  6) Background - There is a lot of things I am willing to accept that you have gone through, and I should be willing to support you through it, but I am not going to commit to a woman who enjoys the use of drugs and drinks a little too often. I am not going to start anything with drugs, and while I might start drinking in my own time, I am not fine helping out a woman who is stumbling all the time. I wouldn't mind a woman who needs some support, emotional support.
  7) Honesty - I actually kinda wish I was legally allowed to shoot anyone that creates a web of lies. Maybe you can lie about some things, but there is a lot of mistakes that you can make that I might be able to forgive if you are just honest to me about it. Mistakes happen, and we aren't perfect, so just be up front about the things you did. I couldn't ask for more.
  8) Girl - Oh yeah... you have to be a girl. Connecting on an emotional and love level with a guy just isn't possible for me, and I don't want to test it out.

  OFF
  1) Gold digger - I appreciate a girl who can not thank me enough for what I gave them as a gift. Sometimes I might give you a very thoughtful and useful gift, and spend a little too much on it. But if I haven't spent a cent on you in a month and you think you should have sort of weekly allowance, then I wish you goodbye. I would rather know what you need money for and pay for it, if I really had to.
  2) Massive drama games - I have and probably will continue to create some level of drama in a relationship, but if I have a couple of numbers txting my phone telling me how much of a jerk I am, you are blowing this completely out of proportion and you won't be hearing from me again.
  3) Hair maintenance - Woman are meant to be elegant, and have some sort of hair free feature about them. Maybe I can understand how annoying it can be to get well shaved legs all the time, but if you have lost hopes on those legs then I will need to see ID and hope you are not a man. And the down south area, I can understand personal preference, but give trimming a chance at least.
  4) Saving yourself - Sorry, but I just don't want the added complication that sex is out of the question. If you are a virgin it is alright if you wait so I can prove myself that I will not be a mistake for you. However sex needs to exist at some capacity.
  5) Attitudes - If I keep thinking I will die the next time I die as a passenger, or you will die as a driver in a car, then you have serious reality issues. Cars can go fast if you want, but please don't put my life in danger unnecessarily, or make me cry if you lose yours. No drugs either, and drinking like stated above.
  6) Age - Until I get older, any girls younger than 3-4 years of me will have a noticeable different level of maturity and are in that stage of their life. You still live with your parents, and will continue to do so for a while to come. I will get careful once you reveal an age too young for me. On the older side, I suppose I don't mind so much as long as I can pass you off as a teenager... just maybe.
  7) Shy - You can get time to know me, but if you can't trust me with how you feel about something and keep clammed up all the time, then I don't know how I am going to establish a real emotional relationship with you. I am going to ask you what is wrong sometimes, and I really think you should open up.

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 I find this post too closely related to me and everything that has happened between us in the past.

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That just means you helped me find myself, and what I want. How about you put up yours, and what you want.

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How about no. I don't want people to know what turns me on or off. My life is my life and it's private.

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Sexy is an overstatement